The Life and Times of a Bad Chemistry

The Life and Times of a Bad ChemistryDo you have a friend who never finishes things on time, whose tone of voice suggests irritation and disinterest, or who always gets involved in arguments with others? If so, you might be in a serious relationship with someone who is characterized by a deep bad chemistry. As frustrating as it may be, finding out the deep bad chemistry is actually quite easy.Bad chemistry may start as a one-off. It could simply be that one person dislikes the other person, with no reason. It could also be that one person is always ready to fight, with no reason. It could also be that both of them prefer to fight over the smallest things, and keep on pushing each other's buttons for no good reason. In fact, many people in a relationship are made up of bad chemistry.When there is a strong dislike, the person whose way of thinking and behaviour is contrary to your own has a very different life than you do. You are at home together and there is plenty of time to get on well. The other person who become irritable and disinterested, and is always in trouble, have a life of his own and they would love nothing more than to keep you around and not speak to you.However, the relationship could have a very complex cause, such as a chemical imbalance in their brain, which makes them react as they do, whether they like it or not. They may also have a hidden reason for their behaviour, such as the need to be popular, or the need to be a 'good girl', or the need to fit in or be accepted, or a combination of several reasons.Getting to the root of the problem is of course essential to getting the right relationship with the right person. If you are sure you have a problem, you can either go in for a checkup and counselling, or you can make sure that you go in for a checkup. This will let you understand the real causes and be able to resolve the situation. If you do not, you may find yourself having to maintain a constant and stable distance from the person, or trying to change your ways, with little effect.After you are certain that you have a bad chemistry, it is time to approach your partner with the idea of finding a way to solve the problem. There are many things that you can do. Perhaps you could both take some positive steps to improve the quality of your relationship. The problems could be that the one with whom you do not have chemistry has a hidden bad chemistry, or you have a bad chemistry but cannot see the problem, so you keep fighting your way through.Once you understand how bad chemistry works, you will have a better relationship, and a better understanding of how to handle it. Bad chemistry does not have to rule your relationship, and if you choose to ignore it, it may well bring you closer together.